I think it is considered “normal” for an Asian girl not to be attracted to Asian guys. But what about the other way round? Almost all other Asian guys I know only want to date Asian girls exclusively.

Only Asian girls seem to like me. Mostly Filipina girls. Probably because I am Filipino. But I am just not interested in them. Asian girls are nice to be friends with, but I am just not attracted to their features. I also find their personalities not outgoing enough or just really predictable. I have given Asian girls a chance. I have dated some Vietnamese girls before. But I lost interest really quickly and they couldn't turn me on at all. I just can't seem to see myself with an Asian girl.

But what really annoys me is that if an Asian girl isn't interested in Asian guys, people support her. But when they find out I am not interested in Asian girls, everyone jumps on my case. Double Standard right?

But anyway, I just love white girls. I really like brighter coloured eyes, lighter coloured hair and that creamy complexion. I also find them to be attractive if they have dark hair and dark eyes, but to a lesser extent. I am not saying all white girls attractive, but I am just really into them. There is also the more outgoing, less predictable and more exciting personality.

Sadly, the stereotype that white girls wouldn't like Asian guys anyway does seem to be true in my experience. Which is why I haven't had a good run of relationships. I am always seen as just a friend. It could be a number of reasons. Maybe I am not trying hard enough or they just don't find me attractive. Maybe because us Asian guys tend to look younger for our age and girls in general don't like that. I know for a fact I look really young for an 18 year old.

I guess I just have to try harder. Also, the fact that I am really into white girls but have never dated one, makes me want to get with one that I like even more. I am on a gap year and going to university next year. Maybe things will change there. Yes I did mean it when I said, “one that I like”. I am not going to date any girl just because she is white.

Being born and raised in the UK, I have heard many different people from the USA say that if I went over there, I wouldn't have much trouble getting a girl because of my “British accent”. Is that true? Maybe I should try my luck in the USA.

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